In a social media post, Walter reflected on how cultural norms and ingrained beliefs about pastors exacerbated her suffering, prompting her to share her story a decade ago.
Although she faced significant social backlash, Walter acknowledged that revealing her experience facilitated some healing, even as she continued to bear emotional scars.
In her message, she articulated her newfound perspective: “I release Biodun Fatoyinbo from everywhere I have held him in unforgiveness. I do it first for myself, and I also do it for him.” Recalling a recent conversation with a woman who shared insights into similar experiences, Peters realized she could choose a path forward that no longer defined her by past trauma.
Walter also contemplated the societal pressures that had previously led her to regard pastors as infallible, reflecting on her upbringing, which instilled a sense of reverence and fear towards religious leaders.
She noted that these cultural beliefs contributed to her confusion and pain following her experience at COZA.
In her post, she detailed her initial reactions to the incident, her unsuccessful attempts to find support within her religious community, and the profound sense of isolation she endured.
Despite understanding the long-term implications, she chose to share her story publicly.
As part of her healing journey, Walter has decided to withdraw from a planned documentary about her experiences, feeling that it no longer resonates with her personal growth. She described this decision as a significant step towards embracing her renewed outlook and self-acceptance.
“I can choose to rewrite that story,” Walter shared that she no longer perceives herself as a victim but rather as an individual who has achieved emotional resolution.