Some women cheat;
some women never cheat. Some women feel like that they want to cheat on their
husbands or boyfriends for a variety of reasons. Some women admit that they are
stuck in their boring relationships and marriages for a variety of reasons. Some
women take their risks to violate their commitments to their husbands (or
boyfriends) as the cause of cheating.
One day, a woman
walks on the street, carrying a few books; unexpectedly, she runs into a
handsome young man. She thinks, “Whoa! What a nice body he has!” or “He smells
so good, I have nothing to worry about my boyfriend (or husband).” After
cheating, she cries– “Unbelievable! What have I done!?”
Do you want to
know why women cheat on their husbands or boyfriends?
Some quick facts:
Women need more
attention as a result of avoiding their loneliness.
Women blame their
husbands (or boyfriends) for their problems.
Women believe that
their husbands (or boyfriends) would do the same thing to them before.
Women believe that
they would not be caught cheating.
Women assume that
their husbands (or boyfriends) would never change.
Women feel good when other men are attracted
to them physically and sexually as a result of physical touch and flirting
behavior.
Women believe that
their husbands (or boyfriends) are not interested in them physically or
emotionally.
Women are stuck by
their lustful behavior.
Women lost their
interests in their husbands (or boyfriends).
Women admit that
their husbands (or boyfriends) are not their “types”.
10.
The relationship isn't THAT serious.
In the beginning,
you may find yourself in a brand new relationship, you're just dating but you
really like the guy but you aren't quite sure if you want to be exclusive, men,
you better not take too long to figure it out and seal the deal. While you're out
there dating or talking to a couple of other girls to make sure she's the right
one for you, she could be doing the same thing! Unfortunately for you, women
get hit on almost everyday, it could just be for sex or whatever the
circumstance, but we get attention out there no matter what we look like-there
is always someone who is willing to get in our pants. Fortunately, we have been
turning men down since the beginning of time, so unlike you, the predator, we
are the type of prey that can say NO and walk away. When you think you are not
quite ready to settle down as you go from one woman to the next, you are really
wasting time on the girls you don't really like instead of investing time in
the one you really want. If you don't seal the deal while she's really into
you, you just might blow it, and she knows it!
9.
They are bored in the relationship.
When women get
bored with their man they may seek comfort in the arms of a stranger or an old
familiar flame. They get bored when the sparks no longer fly, they are stuck in
a routine at home or in the relationship, and if their man isn't paying
attention to them or they aren't having anymore fun together. Women need
romance, dancing, dinners, spontaneous getaways, anything that will keep them
guessing and make them feel special. The longer you leave gaps in between the
romance, some other guy may be fillin gin for you. When the man she loves is
spending too much time and attention on himself or his other interests, it is a
complete turn-off for women because we want to be the center of his world, and
when we aren't, we know that someone else will place us on a peddle stool.
You've seen the chick flicks guys, how much more do we need to spell it out for
you?!
8.
They aren't getting what they want out of the relationship.
Most women want a
place to call home, especially a house, they want a marriage or some type of
commitment, and eventually, they want to start a family. If they have been in a
long term relationship and nothing seems to be materializing from it, they will
consider straying if they haven't already. Women need to know their place in
your life, we want to know that you are in it to give them that happily ever
after, and if you don't step it up, then you need to proceed with caution. It
isn't about sex, it's about being with a man that is ready to GROW UP and take
the relationship to the next level. No matter what we say, we need the ring,
the piece of paper, the contract, the whole sha-bang! We don't want to be your
baby mama, but if that's what it takes to get you to commit, then some women
will take that route and make you miserable for the rest of your life, all
because... you didn't give her want she wants or needs in the relationship.
Remember guys, there will always be someone else out there that will promise
her the world if you aren't already giving it to her.
7.
When he has too much baggage.
Psycho ex
girlfriends, baby mama drama, ex-wives with too much control, a meddling
mother, over-protective siblings, bratty kids and friends that don't know when
to go home, will take their toll on a woman. There is nothing more unattractive
then a man that has too much baggage. Women will begin to take a look at their
options out there no matter how nice or great of a guy her man is. A man can
spoil her rotten, treat her with love and respect, but if his mama always has
something to say, if his parents drop by unannounced, or are rude when her man
isn't around, she will begin to resent the number one woman in your life, her
arch-enemy... Yo' MAMA! If your ex, baby mama, or ex-wife causes too many
problems in your relationship, you better do whatever you can to keep her
because that is some bull-stuff that she will only take for so long. What's
worse is if you can't control your own kids, that is also a major turn off
because she wants you to be the MAN, not the doormat! When your friends come
over too much or stay too long, you're not doing couples activities and you're
all just sitting around playing video games, that will make you all look like a
high school boy instead of the man she knows you can be. If you seem to be
fighting about other people in your lives, that is definitely a red flag that
she is not happy, so schedule time with your friends or family and let her go
do whatever she likes to do then meet up latter. Whatever you do, don't keep
repeating the same thing over and over when she tells you she doesn't like
something (or someone) take care of the problem like a man, don't keep
irritating her. When you really love someone, you will make the simple effort
to make little changes for the benefit of the relationship; its all about
compromise. If a man has too much baggage, there will be a drama free man out
there just waiting for a chance to be with her, especially if she isn't
carrying much baggage of her own.
6.
They won't leave something for nothing.
When you're just
not getting along and you seem to be fighting a lot, fellas beware! Most women
won't have a clean break because we need to "get under someone new, to get
over someone old." That's right, this is something even our mothers and
grandmothers know now days! That is why we always tend to have a "rebound
guy," you know, the guy after the serious long-term relationship, before
the string of one night stands and mini-relationships that will eventually lead
to the new and improved relationship with someone better then you. Don't be
mistaken, women are a lot more slick then we have been given credit for, and
you won't even see it coming. By the time you're ready to "work things
out" she may be on to bigger and better things, so if you know you love
her and want to be with her, you better fix the problems before you get
replaced. We think about our feelings and emotions a lot before we stray or
start looking for the rebound guy, by the time we act on it, we have made up
our minds and moved on. All you need to know is that the plan was well thought
out before it was executed.
5.
Ok, sometimes it is about the SEX.
If a girl is
having trouble climaxing, no matter how great of a guy you are, or if you have
a mortgage, lease or kids together, she just might stray, depending on how bad
it is and how much she really loves you. You could be rich, offer her
everything under the sun, but if you can't deliver the kind of lovin' she
needs, you're headed for trouble, because there is an easy remedy to cure that
little problem. You will find that more and more women will have a Cha-cha, a
guy they can call on whenever, wherever, to take care of their sexual appetite.
Unlike a booty call, a Cha-cha knows you're in a relationship, he might be in
one too, but he is readily awaiting her number appearing on the Caller ID of
his cell phone. He is the guy that will give her presents AND *******, but he
never calls her, she calls him. Men have their "old reliables" that
they call when they are having a dry spell, women do too, but the Cha-cha is a
special man that takes care of her wants and needs in different ways then a
booty call and an old reliable. He is also there when you aren't acting right,
he will console her after a fight, even if she doesn't mention a word about it,
and he is there if she hasn't lined him up already, if you are having any of
the issues from 6-10 in addition to the bad sex. Women have sexual and
emotional needs that require your attention and if you aren't giving it to
them, someone else will without a doubt!
4.
When things start to go sour.
Let's face it,
women need a lot of attention, we have feelings and emotions that run deeper
then any of the seven seas in the whole wide world. If you forget her birthday,
an anniversary, or any other special day or if you skimp out on the other
important days like Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Christmas, New Years Eve or
WHATEVER, she will feel unappreciated and that is a major red-light danger
zone! If you are so caught up and busy doing whatever it is that you do, even
if you are working a lot to pay bills and what not, at the very least... you
better remember the days that count! The rule of thumb here is that you need to
show your appreciation to her, show her how special she is and how much she
means to you. Say thank you in little ways, because every woman will tell you,
"it's the little things that count." The reason the little things
count is because they all add up to one big thing, whether or not you appreciate
her enough. If she baby's you when you're sick, packs your lunches, makes you
dinner every night, if she cuts your hair, or makes you feel special by
throwing you a surprise party, or gets you little thoughtful gifts here and
there, no matter what the occasion, she is doing her best to make you feel
special, loved and appreciated. We will never say it out loud, but we're
expecting you to do it for us too. Picking up some flowers "just
because" is a great way to show her, taking her out for a romantic dinner
will also do the trick, getting her a card to say you're sorry, or giving her a
little something because you love her, will always work wonders. If not, there
is always some guy out there that will give her the works and charm those
panties off by sweeping her off her feet.
3.
If the relationship gets physical, in a bad way.
Don't think that
you could ever completely control a woman. If you try to use scare tactics, if
you hit her, beat her up, or threaten her, she can and will stray at some point,
it is just a matter of when. If you are verbally or emotionally abusive, we may
play the victim card but every woman can be pushed to her breaking point until
enough is enough. There are way more nice guys then evil ones out there and if
you didn't know this already, we have been trained to await our night in
shining armor, thanks to Disney. You can beat us to the ground and we will pick
ourselves up because even though we love you and you hurt us in anyway, there
is always another guy waiting to save that damsel in distress. We all know how
much women talk, we talk about everyone and everything, so if she's with
friends or at work spilling her guts out to someone else, anywhere else, the
other women will be more then willing to set her up with someone great that
they know, and most guys would love to play the part of the hero.
2.
When she doesn't come first in your life.
If you put other
people before her then she will eventually stray and find herself in bed with a
guy that will put her first. A woman has to feel like she is your number one
priority outside of your real responsibilities like work or school, since women
can be considered your partner, she needs to be treated as such, and more. When
you're spending more time or money on your Mom, or anyone else other then her,
you will have some problems. If you spend too much time at work and not enough
time on her, there will be a big fight around the corner. I know it sounds
selfish, but that is just the way we are. Think about it, when a man has a little
girl, he is over protective of her, he spoils her, and she is his princess
forever. When Dad is around, she is on her best behavior because she knows that
if she plays her cards right, she can get whatever she wants from him... Mom on
the other hand, is different. Mothers and daughters have a different
relationship, they teach us all the domestic knowledge we need to be a wife and
mother, cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids, etc. Usually, the father will
discipline, the kids, but he is always easier on his little girl then on his
boys. There are Daddy's girls, and Mama's boys, there is a method to that
madness. You see, mothers make it difficult for any woman to measure up because
most guys want a girl kind of like his mom, in a way, and women want a strong,
providing, generous man, like her daddy. Women just want a guy to make her feel
like a princess, so if you've got other things on that peddle stool, you better
make room for her because if she isn't your number one, she will belong to
someone else in no time. It's not just about people either, it is also habits
and addicitions, like drugs or video games, if you spend more time on the
Playstation III or getting high, she will find a more mature man that will
place that crown on her head and slip on that glass slipper.
1.
Whatever you can do, we can do it better.
If you have
cheated on us and we take you back, you better be on your toes every minute of
every day! Don't think you are in the clear just because she forgave you, you
better watch how she interacts with your brother, your cousins, your best
friends, co- workers, and anyone with a penis. She will go for the jugular
fellas, and I am not playing! If you break her heart and she gives you a second
chance, she is probably going to start plotting the biggest, heart-breaking
performance of her life. Just when you think it's all water under the bridge,
you will find your heart ripped out, stomped on and spit on, under that bridge.
Every woman handles it differently, she will either go for someone close to
you, or she will slowly but surely, be with someone else behind your back,
whether you find out about it or not is up to her. She may take you back, all
the while knowing that she has slept with someone else, because in the back of
her mind, "what you don't know won't hurt." Trust me fellas, she will
smile in your face and act like everything is normal, but behind that grin lies
the remnants of a broken heart plotting away vengeance. You see, it is so much
easier for a woman to cheat, all we have to do is say "yes". Men love
the thrill of the chase, they are natural predators, and once they have a piece
of the pie, they are done with it because the thrill of the chase is over. If
they get caught it's because they weren't doing it right, they got sloppy, and
weren't paying attention. Women on the other hand, are very detail oriented, if
she gets caught, she probably wanted to. Women will sleep with a guy even if he
has a significant other, we are competitive that way. If the girl you cheated
on knew about your woman, she was in it for the competition, you really mean
nothing to her; sorry guys. Women always think they are better then other
women, even sisters are rivals, but you are the fool that gets caught in the
middle. If you don't end up with one of the two, you will end up alone, because
a woman doesn't really want the guy that cheats on his chick with her because
he will probably do it to her too. The woman who got cheated on will either
take you back and get you back to even the score, or she will not have anything
to do with you. It's all a game, and most of the time... it's the men that play
the fools.
I know this all
sounds horrible, and you probably think that women aren't like that, but if you
really believe that then you are naive. Women are not nice when you hurt them
or don't treat them the way they deserve to be treated. They will strike when
you least expect it, she will hurt you in away you never thought possible, and
if she did it all because of some thing you did or failed to do, she will do it
without a single regret. A woman scorned will do the impossible and the
unbelievable; you will not be prepared for the atomic bomb she will drop on
you. It could be days, weeks, months, years, but she knows she is in control
and she will take her time to get you back. Let's go back to the beginning,
remember how Eve convinced Adam to eat that apple? Well, that's the kind of
power we have over men. Don't think for a moment, that you are special, men are
disposable, sad but true. Anything you won't do for us, someone else will be
more then willing to step up and take care of us, and that's the guy that gets
the trophy wife. The self-absorbed, naive man, is still a boy to us, and what
we really want, is a MAN. A woman will love you whole heartedly if you play
your cards right, but if you don't, she will call your bluff and walk away with
the pot, take your pride with her, and leave you all alone to figure out how
the heck she pulled it off.
When cheating
women are caught cheating, their husbands (or boyfriends) can lost their
respects for them. Every husband and boyfriend has their rights to ditch their
cheating women as the consequence of that they are fearful of getting the
diseases or that they are concerned that cheating women would do it again in
the future.
About 75 percent
of women are cheating on their husbands (or boyfriends) for a variety of
reasons. Cheating women destroy their reputations as the cause of their
cheating on their husbands (or boyfriends). Sadly, friends, family relatives,
and employees cannot trust cheating women because they may not able to forget
about women’s cheating habits.
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