Maimuna & kids |
While many
Nigerians, who are not even family members of Maimuna Anyaene, who lost her
life along with that of her husband, Barrister Onyeka, four kids,
mother-in-law, sister and other relatives in the ill-fated Dana Aircraft, which
crashed on Sunday June 3 in Iju-Ishaga, Lagos, her brother, are in deep grief .
Ndako still went ahead with his wedding with his lover, Halima.
Anyaene and the
others were actually coming to Lagos for the wedding, which was slated for
Saturday June 9, 2012 when they met their untimely death, and the family could
not even retrieve their bodies, which were burnt to ashes.
Maimuna, who was
based in the United States of America with her children, was said to have been
in the country for a visit, and used the opportunity to stand by her brother on
his day of joy. But this was not to be as she died with her children and hubby
in the fatal crash.
Sources said that
Ndako Mijindadi and other family members felt it was better not to postpone the
wedding since nothing could be done to bring back the dead. We were reliably
informed that Ndako pleaded with close family members not to shift the date
since a lot of money had been spent to organize the ceremony. He was said to
have insisted that many people had traveled from far and near and even outside
the country to be at the wedding and that postponing it would be unfair to such
people apart from causing him waste of resources.
The wedding
eventually held on Saturday 9th June, 2012 six days after the crash amidst
fanfare at 'The Incubator' owned by the Redeemed Christian Church of God, City
of David Parish.
The family was
said to have added in the invitation card circulated to friends and well
wishers that a prayer session would hold for the departed at 'The Incubator'
(after Four Points), Victoria Island, Lagos at 9a.m on Saturday June 9, 2012,
while the Fatiha for Halima and Ndako would hold by 11a.m at No. 10 Mayaki
Usman Street off Wole Ariyo Street, Lekki Phase 1, while refreshment would be
at the Incubator.
What surprised
many was that the whole event went with the couple and invitees behaving as if
nothing happened. This, they said is a surprise from a man, who lost his sister
with her four children, husband, his mother and other relatives in one air
crash.
The Muslim cleric,
who preached at the wedding, was said to have assured them that they were on
the right track as the Muslim faith does not have room for mourning, that once
a man is dead, he is dead.
“It was indeed a
surprise to many of us that Ndako could not postpone the wedding. We all expected
him to shift the wedding, but the family went ahead with it, arguing that as a
Muslim, they could not mourn. It is just too bad, we hope they would realize
the enormity of what they have done,” said a concerned member of the family.
The late Maimuna
is the daughter of Professor Ndanusa Mijindadi of Ahmadu Bello University,
Zaria. She attended primary school in Zaria and secondary school at Queens
College,
Lagos. She later attended University of Ife,
now Obafemi Awolowo University, where she graduated with second class upper in
Economics in 2001.
Maimuna was a
Muslim by birth, but she married a Christian, Barrister Onyeka Anyaene. They
both died in the ill-fated Dana Air crash with all their children and were
burnt beyond recognition.
Their story was
the most pathetic in the crash, but it seems their family members have put the
whole thing behind them and have continued with their normal lives.
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