Veteran Nollywood actress and philanthropist Omotola Jalade Ekeinde has delivered an inspiring message to young girls, encouraging them to prioritise self-development, emotional well-being, and spiritual growth in the face of growing societal pressures.
Speaking candidly about the challenges young women often encounter, Omotola emphasized the importance of embracing one's individuality and resisting the urge to conform to unrealistic expectations shaped by family, culture, or social media.
“Everyone blossoms at different times,” she said. “You seem… You are different, but because you’re not normal, you think it’s bad; no, it’s special. You are special.”
The actress acknowledged that societal timelines and cultural standards often impose pressure on young women to meet certain milestones, but she advised them to tune out the noise and focus on their personal journey.
Reject Comparison, Find Your Purpose
Omotola encouraged girls to avoid constant comparison, particularly on social media platforms, which she noted can be detrimental to mental health and self-esteem. She shared that even she takes regular breaks from social media to maintain emotional balance.
“Start working on yourself. Find things that keep you moving, and do them!” she advised. “Make sure you surround yourself with things that give you hope and joy.”
A Message of Faith and Inner Strength
In a heartfelt segment of her message, Omotola expressed the role of faith in her personal journey, urging young girls to explore a spiritual path if they feel lost or disconnected.
“If you don’t know him, my personal advice is to seek a personal relationship with Jesus. Try that. I promise you’ll find joy in your journey.”
She concluded with a note of hope and reassurance: “Your best is yet to come. It might not feel like that now. But key in, soon you’ll smile. You’ll see.”
Championing the Next Generation
Renowned for both her career achievements and humanitarian efforts, Omotola continues to use her platform to inspire and uplift others. Her message serves as a powerful reminder that true growth comes from within—and that every young woman deserves the space and support to thrive on her own terms.
