Popular social media influencer VeryDarkMan, widely known as VDM, has addressed recent comments by reality TV star Phyna, who described him as a “Very Dirty Boy” and suggested that his closeness to her contributed to the breakdown of her relationship with actress Iyabo Ojo.
Phyna had earlier claimed that her interactions with VDM played a significant role in creating tension between her and Iyabo Ojo, a statement that sparked widespread discussion on social media.
In a detailed public response, VDM expressed disappointment at the accusations, stressing that his support for Phyna was always genuine and unconditional. He said he consistently offered guidance, promoted her projects, and provided personal and professional advice whenever she reached out.
“Whether it was helping with movie promotions, offering advice on personal matters, or assisting with family-related concerns, I made myself available,” VDM said, adding that he often acted without expecting anything in return.
He also questioned what personal benefit he could have gained from the relationship, highlighting that his involvement was driven by loyalty and goodwill rather than self-interest.
Reflecting on the fallout, VDM hinted that certain decisions and an element of greed eventually strained their bond. He also noted that several individuals who once supported and promoted Phyna have distanced themselves as public interest in her waned.
Despite the disagreement, VDM concluded on a conciliatory note, stating that he harbors no bitterness and genuinely wishes Phyna success in her future endeavors.
The exchange has reignited conversations about boundaries, loyalty, and public perception in the entertainment industry, with fans weighing in on both sides of the debate.