Speaking with some of the male housemates on Tuesday, Trams confidently declared that he has never experienced a genuine heartbreak, explaining that he has always protected himself emotionally by ensuring he never depends on just one romantic relationship.
According to him, the only emotional pain he has ever encountered came during his teenage years, insisting that his approach to relationships has since changed.
“I have never gotten heartbroken, na only teenage relationship pain me. E get one point wey we go get to and my plan-b go don dey wait dey ask, ‘What are we?’,” he said.
Trams suggested that maintaining alternative romantic options has helped him avoid the emotional setbacks many people experience after breakups. He also claimed that withholding obvious expressions of interest often increases a woman's curiosity and attraction.
His opinion, however, did not go unchallenged. Fellow housemate Araga disagreed, arguing that such an approach may not be effective with older women, who are often more experienced and less likely to respond to such tactics.
Responding to Araga's comment, Trams maintained that he has considerable experience dating older women, revealing that the oldest woman he has been involved with was 36 years old.
In a separate conversation with fellow housemate Sheba, Trams shifted the discussion to his personal life, making a candid admission about his marriage. Despite revealing that he is married, he acknowledged that he finds it difficult to remain committed to only his wife.
Even with that struggle, Trams stressed that his wife remains deeply important to him. He said he genuinely loves her and values everything they have endured together over the years.
According to him, their shared experiences have created a bond he believes cannot easily be broken. He added that even if their marriage were to end someday and his wife chose to walk away, his care and concern for her would remain unchanged because of the history they share.
The conversations have since generated reactions among viewers, with many debating Trams' perspectives on relationships, emotional commitment, and fidelity as the reality show continues.