The controversy followed a viral clip from the birthday celebration of former Ogun State governor Gbenga Daniel, where the actress was seen kneeling to greet prominent guests, including billionaire businessman Razaq Okoya and Shade Okoya.
While some social media users criticised the act as “abosi”—a Yoruba term implying insincerity or eye service—others defended it as a sign of respect.
“A reflection of who I am”
Responding in a statement shared online, Abraham expressed concern over what she described as a growing disconnect from cultural traditions. She emphasised that kneeling to greet elders is not performative for her, but a value ingrained from childhood.
According to the actress, she was raised within Yoruba cultural norms where gestures such as kneeling for women and prostrating for men are widely recognised as expressions of respect and good upbringing. She maintained that this practice remains a core part of her identity and personal values.
Culture versus changing norms
Abraham’s response highlights a broader conversation around tradition and modern social expectations, particularly in urban and digital spaces where cultural expressions are often reinterpreted or challenged.
For many, traditional greetings in Yoruba culture carry deep symbolic meaning tied to respect, humility, and social order. Critics, however, sometimes view such gestures—especially when performed in high-profile settings—as exaggerated or unnecessary in contemporary society.
Commitment to preserving heritage
Despite the mixed reactions, the actress reaffirmed her stance, stating that she has no intention of abandoning the practice. She also stressed the importance of passing these cultural values on to younger generations, framing it as part of a broader effort to preserve Nigerian heritage.
In an earlier exchange with a fan who suggested she should “package” herself differently to avoid criticism, Abraham made her position clear: she would continue to kneel for those she believes deserve respect, regardless of status or public opinion.
Her response has since reignited discussions about the balance between cultural preservation and evolving social norms—an issue that continues to resonate across generations in Nigeria.