Sola Benson
For comedian and actor Bovi Ugboma, marriage should not be a space where either partner feels trapped or emotionally drained. He has openly shared that he sees divorce not as a failure in all cases, but sometimes as a necessary release for people who are no longer thriving together.
Speaking during a recent appearance on The Morayo Show, the entertainer argued that staying in a toxic or suffocating union does more harm than ending it.
He did not mince words about his stance on separation, framing it as a form of emotional freedom rather than a social stigma.
“I celebrate when people get divorced because I feel it means one or both people were not breathing well in the marriage. I will not suffer anybody neither will I want anybody to suffer me,” he said.
Beyond his general view on relationships, Bovi also turned the conversation inward, reflecting on his own long-term marriage. According to him, being married for 17 years has come with sustained responsibility and ongoing challenges, rather than the simplistic “happily ever after” often imagined from the outside.
He explained that he entered marriage at 29 and has since remained consistently responsible for his household.
Bovi added, “That is not to say my marriage has been easy for 17 years. It has not. I got married at 29. I have been providing for 17 years nonstop.”
His remarks present a layered perspective: on one hand, a firm belief that unhealthy marriages should not be endured indefinitely, and on the other, a candid acknowledgment that even long-standing unions require effort, endurance, and continuous commitment.
