On Sunday, February 12, 2012,
First Weekly exclusively reported the secret wedding between young up and
coming actor, Babatunde Bernard, who is known as Baba Tee, and London-based
journalist, Yetunde Oduwole.
The news generated a lot of
reactions from the public, especially because of the age gap between the two
lovers. Baba Tee is reported to be about 32, while Yetunde is already 41.
In a reaction to the criticisms
their recent union has gotten, Yetunde, a mother of two wrote in her facebook
page with this update;
"Whatever you do, always put
God first! Don't ever fight any battle yourself because you will not win! The
battle is the Lord's and He is the only one that can fight the good fight! That
is why I am not moved when lies are written about me and told about my person.
Because I know my God always vindicates me, He puts me above my enemies. I
marvel at how faithful God is to me. I got a surprise I must share with everyone.
It is to teach you not to fight your battles yourself. You all know my story
that I have been separated from the man I married in 1998. You should also know
the various lies he has told about me. Thank God I became wise early enough to
have left it all to God. For 7 years, I have been a struggling woman, a mother
of two who fends for herself and her kids all alone without a man to help out.
For the 7 years, I didn't get a divorce even though he divorced me without me
knowing so he could marry another woman.
I still bear his name in all my
documents and even my passport. I only got divorced 3 months ago despite the
pressure of many years and even as am speaking my documents and even my
passport are still in his name cos am a bit slow at doing things.
My ex husband, who had waged war
against me, ran his mouth endlessly, ran away from his responsibilities and
divorced me without me knowing, just to be with another woman, came begging for
forgiveness!
He actually commended me for
being a strong woman who has been there for her kids.
Dear friends, I was weeping! not
because he begged, but because God has fought the battle for me! Even if it
tarries, God's words will surely come to pass!
This is a big lesson for all!
Another thing is, whatever makes u happy, do it! Life is too short. I have lost
loads of young people to death and that has taught me to embrace what gives me
joy.
I don't want to die an unhappy
woman. That is why I don't really bother my brain about way people say about
me. I am a gold fish! It will be boring if I hear only good things said about
me!
I have been called a lesbian just
because they haven't been able to point out who I am dating, but please raise
your hand up out there if you are my lesbian lover, tell the world!
I have been called a whore, if I
have slept with a legion of men out there, I demand that you all raise your
hands! I know deep down me that I am as decent as they come.
I even heard they said I had an
abortion for someone recently. LOL, isn't that legal in the UK? And it is
even free! I just might be saving the planet for sustainability! And, I am an
adult! Cant help laughing! Is that news? I am entitled to my happiness.
No one was there for me in my
loneliest days, my weeping nights, when I had to go hungry and when I single
handedly catered for my kids. Now that God has sent a person that sees beyond
my faults and is ready to go the long haul for me, and doesn't care about my
past or whatever damage people cause, tongues are wagging!
The world is sad if you have a
little happiness, how terrible! If you are the one who says her ex husband wont
allow her remarry, he will destroy her with the pen…time to shut up!!!!! He has
sworn to support whoever would make me happy and he is deeply sorry for all he
has done. Who am I not to obey God? He has told me to forgive, and that I must
do so I can be forgiven myself. He has given me victory over my enemies. That's
what matters to me. I don't care about anybody's opposite feelings; God
approves my happiness, not humans. So, dear ex husband, thanks for swallowing
your pride of many years and obeying God. It hurts, but I forgive u. I am glad
u knows Yetunde has been and will always be a good wife.
I wish u d best in life just like
u wish me. Thank u Jesus for making me lives to say this testimony.
9 comments:
Love is a risk, do it anyhow. Go GIRL
Why cant we mind our business and pray for this union. Please lets leave them alone.
-Fatai Atere
Whats the big deal. Thats their lives. I pray that God should bless their union and protect, provide and show them mercy throughout their lives. In jesus mighty name. Amen.
-Fatai Atere
i just love this lady guts and faith.... she a role model to all. GOD bless the couples...
-Valentine Chika
AbeggggggggggAge na number.....she still get de swagger
-Grace Olubukola
Nick Cannon got married to Mariah Carey so what is the big deal
-Funmilayo Ayomiku Odebiyi
Themethayor Ohdulajah.
Gele ma wo be ni ko we jare sis mi, she married her agemate & got divorce, unhappiness, loneliness to mention a few. Ve been thr & if I find love in a younger man I will marry him irrespective of wht pple say. Sis Yetunde, u vnt cm to dis world to live up to anybody's expectations..........carry go !!! OFE LOHUN !!! Baba Tee " am rooting 4 u dnt disappoint me."
Funmilayo Ayomiku Odebiyi.
@ Sisi mi Themethayor na so o . Baba Tee must not disappoint o .
Bo se nlo niyen........oye ka so fun !! Awon ti won ba le ti won ri ba ni won pe loruko orisirisi..........she still got d guds, he's hot for her.....abeg wht else? I wish them everlasting joy & unending hapiness!
-Themethayor Ohdulajah
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