Losing your partner can never be an easy thing for anyone but for a woman the hardships that come along with the loss of their spouse is unimaginable. June 23 is observed as International Widows Day by the United Nation in a bid to create awareness about the situation of widows across many parts of the world.
As Nigeria joins the rest of the world to celebrate International Widows’ Day, the Wife of Ondo State Governor, Arabinrin Betty Anyanwu-Akeredolu, has called on all and sundry to continue to show support and care for widows who are usually marginalised and forgotten in society.
Mrs Akeredolu made this call today, in Akure, the Ondo State
capital, in commemoration of the day, marked globally every 23rd of June to
create awareness of the plight faced by women when they lose their spouse and
highlight solutions to these problems.
She noted that this year’s theme “Invisible women, invisible problems” seeks
to bring to attention the miseries, issues, and challenges faced by women
immediately after the death of their husbands, urged society to rally around
widows to help them ease the burdens of their situation.
“Most widows around us suffer in silence, their fundamental
human right is sometimes threatened in their search for daily bread and other
traumatic experiences; as a decent society, we must extend our hands of
fellowship, identify with these women and provide every necessary support.
Her Excellency, Arabinrin Akeredolu, had last year launched
the Ondo widows care initiative where incentives and other goodies were given
to thousands of registered widows across the 18 local government of Ondo State
regardless of party, religion or age through the data collated on the website
www.ondowidows.com.
“Last year we launched the widow’s website so that widows in
every nook and cranny of Ondo state can register regardless of who they are.
The widows on this site are visible to the government.
“Furthermore, the statistics such as age, employment status,
demography etc. are available to the Government through the Office of the First
Lady and this will enable the government to plan, manage and evenly distribute
resources to the widows. Today we have over twenty-six thousand widows on the
site. The site is accessible to all to view. “
She further stated that the present administration
prioritises their needs and would continue to put in place measures to make
life devoid of hardship and more meaningful for them.
“For emphasis, it is worthy to note that the government of
the day in Ondo State, led by Arakunrin Oluwarotimi Akeredolu, SAN, has always
shown his unflinching support to cater for the welfare of citizens, as
evidenced in the recent presentation of
cash gifts to senior citizens by
the administration at the flag-off of the program “feeding of the elders”, in
commemoration of Mr Governor’s first 100 days in the second term and today more
widows across the 18 LGAs will receive their alerts.”
“Let me assure you that challenges faced as widows will not
be ignored and the government of Ondo state will continue to provide succour.”
Arabinrin Akeredolu lauded every stakeholder, notably, women
advocate groups, for supporting and defending widows and their dependents in
their domains.
The First Lady described widows’ pain as “unique and
volatile”, stressing that “they must be encouraged and motivated in all ramifications.”
Betty Akeredolu urged the widows to be courageous and not to
be physically and emotionally exhausted by their griefs, adding that the
government will not relent in protecting their rights.