Facebook personality Anwulika Udanoh and her estranged Canadian spouse, David Bobbit, were taken by surprise.
Just two months after their highly publicized wedding
captivated the internet, their marriage has encountered significant
difficulties.
Interestingly, the abrupt downfall has sparked a similar
level of attention and excitement as their wedding did. Since the news broke,
Anwulika has faced considerable criticism.
In response, she has taken a firm and unapologetic stance,
sharing her perspective on the situation and explaining her decision to leave
the marriage.
This comes after David's controversial claim that their
relationship deteriorated shortly after their wedding due to her late-night
outings with friends and family, returning home at 3 a.m.
The marriage fell apart due to her late-night clubbing,
returning home at 3 AM. However, there's more to the story.
David recounted that when he questioned Anwulika about her
late return, considering their marriage, she reacted angrily, perceiving his
concern as an attempt to control her. Since that moment, David noted that
Anwulika has shown him a lack of respect.
While David attributes the failure of their brief marriage
to his unfamiliarity with his wife prior to their union, Anwulika, who plans to
remove her husband's name from her social media profiles shortly, has expressed
that David was the one who undermined their marriage, despite his efforts to
support it.
Anwulika, who had previously labeled her estranged husband
as 'My King' on WhatsApp, also shared their conversations on the platform that
followed their disagreement regarding her nightlife.
According her recent statement, the individual made a
conscious decision not to pursue marital reconciliation due to the
unreliability and lack of commitment displayed by her partner. She prioritized
her own well-being and happiness, emphasizing that her mental health is
non-negotiable. This information was shared through a Facebook post on Sunday,
August 25, 2024.
She wrote: “Lollllll…..so, he told you people that I didn’t
tell him that I will be going out with my cousin that night? ���������������
“I choose NOT TO FIX anything because, I cannot deal with a man who cannot stand by his words. A man who will tell you “go and have fun”, then turn around to tell you that he said so because he doesn’t want to be seen as controlling, while being controlling. A man who sabotages his own marriage, forgetting all he spent to make it happen!
“I choose ME and MY HAPPINESS! I cannot trade my sanity for
anything! I cannot leave the life I have built for myself here to go and deal
with the newly discovered man that’s different from the one I married! I have
seen why you people cannot leave a marriage that is not giving what you saw
before going to it and resort to hide my ID here!
“The same reason most of you, despite saying that cheating
is your deal breaker and you cannot do Polygamy, still endure a cheating
husband and his side chic that you know, and when he gets her pregnant and
marries her as second wife, you will come to social media to play victim.
Meanwhile, you ENABLED the bad behaviour all along!
“Hiding your INSECURITY until after marriage will CRUSH any
man who meets a woman like me because, I am ENOUGH before you come to me! That
sh.t works with POOR AFRICAN women who need a man to save them from Nigeria.
Not me!“