In a heartfelt post on social media, the media personality stated that the affection people receive from family and loved ones, although meaningful, is ultimately temporary. According to him, time and generations naturally weaken emotional ties, even after a person’s death.
Leo explained that while people may mourn and remember someone after they pass away, such emotions gradually fade with time as life continues for those left behind.
“I don’t know how to explain this without it sounding sad but you see that love we get from our loved ones? It’s temporary. Soon as you die, people will miss you after. Maybe a couple of people will still have that love. But generations will pass and that love will pass with it,” he wrote.
Despite the seemingly sombre reflection, DaSilva clarified that he was not dismissing the importance of being loved while alive. Instead, he suggested that recognising the temporary nature of human affection can help people approach emotional healing differently and become more self-aware.
“I am not saying having people love you when you’re alive is pointless but the moment you understand that it’s temporary, a lot of things will change about your healing,” he added.
The former Big Brother Naija housemate further drew inspiration from biblical stories, arguing that many individuals who eventually fulfilled great destinies often experienced rejection, pain, or lack of support from those closest to them.
Referencing the story of Joseph in the Bible, DaSilva suggested that family-related struggles can sometimes become the driving force behind a person’s growth, resilience, and eventual success.
“If you read your Bible, you’ll see that many people who went on to achieve great things were not necessarily loved by their family, they left their family to focus on Gods purpose for their life. The pain your family will inflict on you will drive your success like Joseph,” he stated.
His comments have since generated mixed reactions online, with some social media users agreeing with his perspective on emotional detachment and healing, while others argued that genuine love and family bonds can remain lasting beyond generations.
The conversation has also sparked broader discussions around mental health, emotional independence, spirituality, and the realities of human relationships in modern society.