Popular Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has spoken strongly in defense of single motherhood, pushing back against societal stereotypes and stressing that success should be measured by personal growth, stability, and the wellbeing of one’s children rather than marital status.
In a viral video that has sparked widespread reactions online, the actress reflected on her personal journey as a single mother, revealing that she raised her children on her own from a young age. According to Ojo, her achievements are rooted in unwavering faith in God, resilience, and perseverance through difficult times.
She noted that despite doubts and criticism from society, both her daughter and son have grown into successful individuals, and her life has turned out far better than many people expected. The actress described herself humorously as the “president-general of single mothers,” using her story as proof that single parenting does not equate to failure.
Ojo also spoke candidly about the emotional and mental challenges of raising children at a young age, recounting moments of confusion, exhaustion, and uncertainty. She admitted that there were times when the pressure felt overwhelming but emphasized that faith and determination helped her navigate those difficult periods.
“There were times I didn’t even know which road to pass. If anyone had told me I would become a landlady in Lekki, I would have said it was a lie. It wasn’t me, it was God,” she said in the video.
Beyond parenting, the actress addressed relationships and marriage, pointing out that both men and women make choices when it comes to commitment. She encouraged people to place their trust in God rather than societal expectations and expressed deep admiration for fathers who take responsibility for their children.
Iyabo Ojo’s remarks have continued to resonate with many, especially single parents, as she uses her platform to challenge stigma and promote resilience, faith, and responsible parenting.