Popular Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has stirred conversations online after revealing that he would have no problem becoming a stay-at-home husband if his wife earned significantly more money than him.
The actor made the remark during a recent episode of the “teawithtaypod” podcast hosted by Taymesan, where discussions centred on marriage, finances, and evolving gender roles in modern relationships.
Speaking candidly during the conversation, Okanlawon said he would willingly step away from acting if his wife was bringing in between $1 million and $10 million annually.
“If my wife makes $1-10 million per annum, I’ll quit acting and be a house husband,” he said.
His statement immediately sparked reactions online, with many social media users weighing in on the growing conversations around financial dynamics in marriages and whether traditional expectations about men being sole providers are changing.
Okanlawon, however, explained that he does not see marriage as a competition between partners. According to him, what matters most is the overall success and stability of the family, rather than who earns more.
The actor suggested that modern relationships should be built on partnership, understanding, and shared goals instead of rigid societal expectations tied to masculinity and breadwinning.
His comments have since divided opinions across social media platforms. While some Nigerians praised his openness and progressive mindset, others argued that cultural values and traditional family structures still place pressure on men to remain primary providers in the home.
Supporters of the actor noted that his perspective reflects changing realities in many households, where women are increasingly becoming top earners and successful professionals across different industries.
Others, however, insisted that financial leadership remains an important aspect of marriage for many African families, making the idea of a “house husband” difficult for some people to accept.
The conversation has continued to trend online, with many users debating whether relationships should still be defined by traditional gender roles or by mutual agreement between partners.